We discuss the Helping Her Heal video from Dr. Weiss. Linda shares how Dr. Weiss validates all of the betrayed’s feelings, emotions, thoughts, actions and reactions through this video. Clark shares how the 6 steps Dr. Weiss shares really do help the addicted to validate the betrayed’s feelings which lead to more productive conversations to help Linda heal.

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  • - 1:40 - Man in sewer story
  • - 3:10 - Buy Dr. Weiss DVD
  • - 17:40 - Step 1 - Try to hear her heart
  • - 17:49 - Step 2 - Discover and explore her feelings
  • - 18:31 - Step 3 - Validate her feelings
  • - 19:36 - Step 4 - Take responsibility
  • - 20:18 - Step 5 - Ask, “What do you need from me?”
  • - 20:38 - Step 6 - Do what she asks
  • - 34:08 - President Ezra Taft Benson quote
  • - 35:10 - President Oaks Quote - https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/dallin-h-oaks_revelation/
  • - 44:50 - Grant Cardone Quotes: “Success is your duty, obligation, and responsibility.”
  • - 45:52 - Continued: “Quit blaming your past for your current condition.”
  • - 46:24 - “Approach every situation with a ‘whatever it takes’ mindset.”
  • - 46:42 - “Don’t let what has happened in the past prevent you from dominating the year.”
  • - 50:02 - Plea for feedback, emails clark@clarknlinda.com & linda@clarknlinda.com


Do a role play with your spouse and practice the steps recommended by Dr. Weiss.


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Disclaimer: The Clark N Linda Show includes thoughts, opinions, experiences, and testimonies of hosts Clark & Linda Winegar. The information shared is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional sexual addiction therapy, betrayal trauma therapy, marriage counseling/therapy or legal advice. Please seek professional help for recovery & healing. You know, like from people who actually went to school or have had more than just 1st hand experience with this. Also, said thoughts, opinions, experiences, and testimonies represent those of two individual members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, BUT we do not claim to represent or speak for The Church in any official capacity. Expressed views and opinions should not be construed as official church doctrine—though we’ll certainly try not to stray far from it and hope someone calls us out if we do.