What kind of fears, worries and shame plague the addicted and the betrayed? Do you experience these same fears?

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  • 1:40:  Talk about fears.
  • 2:37:  Listened to [Light the Fight Podcast][1] about Fear.
  • 4:51: What kept Clark from disclosing to Linda instead of her finding out the way she did?
  • 5:13: Rationalization and believing the lies Satan tells you.
  • 6:00: How Clark actually helped for Halloween instead of complaining and feeling put out.
  • 9:00: I'm not being dishonest for me, I'm just trying to protect her.
  • 9:15: Awful fear of telling. One of the top lies, "if she only knew the terrible person that you are..." "You're never going to get over this." "I'll loose everything!"
  • 13:30: Linda's fear. Clark is now doing better than Linda.
  • 15:46: Infertility
  • 17:26: The adversary is the enemy and feeds us the same fears!
  • 18:15: Clark terrified of relapse.
  • 28:00: Is there a way to fight through fears when one spouse doesn't want to do the work?


Sit down, get vulnerable (maybe also grab some cookies) and share what your biggest fear is with your spouse? or fears cause there could be more. Then talk about a plan to face your fears and continue forward through those fears.


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Disclaimer: The Clark N Linda Show includes thoughts, opinions, experiences, and testimonies of hosts Clark & Linda Winegar. The information shared is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional sexual addiction therapy, betrayal trauma therapy, marriage counseling/therapy or legal advice. Please seek professional help for recovery & healing. You know, like from people who actually went to school or have had more than just 1st hand experience with this. Also, said thoughts, opinions, experiences, and testimonies represent those of two individual members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, BUT we do not claim to represent or speak for The Church in any official capacity. Expressed views and opinions should not be construed as official church doctrine—though we’ll certainly try not to stray far from it and hope someone calls us out if we do.